Momentous Decisions
By Adriana Solis
In Mexico, there have been a lot of economic crises. For as long as I
can remember, every six years when in Mexico had change of president, the whole
country waits nervously for the currency devaluation, which means the poor get poorer,
there is less purchasing power, more job losses and an increase in debt for
almost everyone. Those situations have existed for many years, even before I
was born. The politicians have not done a good job and many people are always
affected. In 1947, my grandparents were some of them. They were really poor
when they met and decided get married, but one day they decided to move to
Guadalajara looking for better future. This city is the second most important
city in Mexico and this movement, was a big change in our whole family’s
history.
When I talked with my grandma about the first years of her marriage, she
always said “We were really poor, and sometimes we didn't have anything to
eat”. This kind of situation made my grandparents look for a better opportunity
in a new place. Both my grandparents became orphans when they were children. My
grandmother got married with my grandfather when they were around seventeen
years old. He was a shoemaker, and she was a housewife. Almost all relatives
were poor too, but one day one of their nephews decided to move to Guadalajara,
and some months later, when he got basic skills as automotive mechanics and
started to work, he was able to bring the whole family with him, including my
grandparents.
Once installed in Guadalajara, my grandparents started to work very hard.
My grandfather learned about automotive mechanics, and my grandmother washed
clothes and made tostadas, a delicious dish in Mexican cuisine. Then, my grandfather
started to work with his nephew and got experience. Some months later, he was
able to open his own auto repair shop. With all their work and my grandmother
as a great administrator, they started another business: a grocery store in
their neighborhood. The grocery store became a successful business, and both my
grandfathers’ auto repair shop and the grocery run by my grandmother, could
provide my grandparents and their children with a better life. Step by step,
they were building a different life for themselves.
Many years later, I thought it would be good idea to attend college in
Guadalajara, but I lived with my parents in Ocotlán, a small town near
Guadalajara. This shift needed support and my parents gave me it. We were not
rich but we didn´t have big economic problems. My mother was the youngest in
her family, and she didn´t live the hardships that my grandparents had lived
and my father worked all the time for the same company. Despite this, my
grandparents were always a big support when we needed it. So, with my parents’
support and, as a usual, my grandparents’ support too, I was able to study in
Guadalajara. Some years later, I graduated from college knowing that largely I
owed my education, to the decisions that my grandparents had taken in the past.
In conclusion, my grandparents have always been an example and inspiration
of success, and surely this will remain for future generations in my family. One
day, with all their fears, they took risks and made decisions that became
momentous, establishing a better foundation for all those who were born after
them. All the fortune they were seeking and found are still with all my
relatives and me, not only as material things but as values and examples of
perseverance and commitment. I will be always thankful to them for that.
Hi Adriana,
ReplyDeleteIt is a interesting essay.The chance that your grandparents chosen has made their life better. It is a great example that show us life can be wonderful if we chose the right way.
hi Adriana.
ReplyDeleteyour grandparent represent for all of old generations. They always scarified and tried to find better conditions for their future generation, and their wishes is wanting to see the success of children and their grandchildren. I think your grandparent were very proud of you because you finished your college which brought the happiness to them